Modern Man, Ancient Mind
Still cavemen at heart — only now we carry passports.
Travel isn’t just about new places — it’s about old instincts. Caveman Passport explores how our primal drives shape modern journeys,
from the pull of lust to the need for escape, reset, and meaning.
The Firepit — Core Journeys
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Why I Keep Leaving Home for Thailand — Between Two Worlds
After every trip, I tell myself I’m done with Thailand. Yet a few quiet months at home and the pull returns. This is the story of that cycle — between peace and chaos, solitude and connection, reflection and desire. Why I Keep Leaving Home for Thailand — Between Two Worlds explores the internal barriers, awareness,…
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Travel Conflict – Why We’re Never Content Wherever We Are
Wherever you are, you long for the opposite. In Bangkok you crave calm; in Sussex you crave chaos. Travel Conflict explores that restless human loop — the swing between contentment and craving, peace and stimulation — and why the caveman brain ensures neither lasts for long.
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Single Travel and the Catch 22
At home, loneliness is the default. Abroad, the outlet is everywhere. That’s the Catch-22 of being single in places like Bangkok or Pattaya: you escape the void at home, but in doing so you make sure the void never goes away.
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The Travel Shadow – And the Lust That Lives There
Not all journeys lead outward. Some lead straight into the heart of the Shadow. For many solo male travelers, especially in Southeast Asia, lust isn’t a distraction—it’s the reason. This post explores the raw psychological terrain where sexuality, suppression, and self-confrontation meet. Lust isn’t shameful—it’s ancient. And travel doesn’t corrupt you—it reveals you.
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The Asian Dating Funnel: When Travel Becomes a Trap
What begins as casual swiping back home can quickly spiral into life-changing entanglements abroad. This post maps the full journey of the older Western man through Southeast Asia’s modern dating ecosystem — from the initial dopamine hits on dating apps, through the three distinct paths he can walk once he arrives. We explore the evolutionary…
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Seekers vs. Settlers: The Two Paths of Modern Man
Some men build homes. Others follow the road. But when you walk the wrong path, suffering follows. This post explores the ancient divide between Settlers and Seekers—and how knowing who you truly are might change everything.
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Hedonic Adaptation: Why Travel Thrills Fade and How to Fight It
Even the most exciting trips eventually feel flat. This post explores the hidden force behind that fading thrill—hedonic adaptation—and reveals practical, purpose-driven ways to reset your excitement and fall in love with travel all over again.
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The Travel Cycle
Every journey follows a predictable emotional arc—the Travel Cycle. It begins with anticipation, peaks in discovery, dips into routine and fatigue, and ends with reflection before returning home. Understanding these phases helps travelers manage expectations, avoid burnout, and make the most of their trips. Explore how the cycle unfolds and how to stay engaged through…
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Hedonism and Balance in Travel
Travel amplifies the allure of hedonism, from exotic food to vibrant nightlife. While indulgence can enrich your journey, excessive hedonism risks turning the experience sour. Discover how to balance pleasure and purpose to transform travel into a fulfilling adventure.
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Homesickness while Traveling
Homesickness isn’t just missing home—it’s part of the journey. Learn why we feel it, how to manage it, and how it brings meaning to both travel and return.